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Quarter 2 Week 19

Muditā in the Family

喜悅從家開始:感激父母無私的愛 · Joy with My Family

本週重點

Overview

💬 English Goal

英文目標

Use the cause-and-effect pattern “I appreciate my parents because…” to give reasons, and learn character vocabulary: appreciate, selfless, perseverance, altruistic, provide. Review the simple past tense for telling stories.

用因果句型「I appreciate my parents because…(我感謝我的父母,因為…)」來說明理由,並學習關於品格的單字:appreciate(感謝、珍惜)、selfless(無私的)、perseverance(毅力)、altruistic(利他的)、provide(提供)。複習用來講故事的簡單過去式。

🪷 Spiritual Goal

佛學/心靈目標

Understand that the practice of Muditā (隨喜) begins at home. Learn the importance of gratitude (報恩) and filial piety (孝道), and see that true wealth is not money but love and compassion.

理解「隨喜(Muditā)」的練習要從家裡開始。學習「報恩(gratitude)」與孝道(filial piety)的重要,並看見真正的財富不是金錢,而是愛與慈悲。

單字 Vocabulary

點 🔊 聽發音

聽、跟著念、大聲說三次。

appreciate(v.)感激
selfless(adj.)無私的
perseverance(n.)堅持
altruistic(adj.)利他的
envy(n.)妒忌
provide(v.)提供/養育
paramount(adj.)至高無上的

句型 Sentence Patterns

Key Patterns
Pattern 1 · Giving a reason
I appreciate ___ because ___.

I appreciate my parents because they take care of me. I appreciate my parents because they take care of me.(我感謝我的父母,因為他們照顧我。)

I appreciate my grandma because she is selfless. I appreciate my grandma because she is selfless.(我感謝我的奶奶,因為她很無私。)

I appreciate my dad because he works hard for our family. I appreciate my dad because he works hard for our family.(我感謝我的爸爸,因為他為我們家辛勤工作。)

Pattern 2 · Sharing joy without envy
I am not jealous; I am happy for ___.

My friend won the race. I am not jealous; I am happy for her. My friend won the race. I am not jealous; I am happy for her.(我的朋友贏了比賽。我不嫉妒;我為她感到開心。)

My brother got a good grade, and I am happy for him. My brother got a good grade, and I am happy for him.(我哥哥拿到了好成績,我為他感到開心。)

Pattern 3 · How parents care for us (simple present)
My parents provide ___ for me.

My parents provide food and a home for me. My parents provide food and a home for me.(我的父母為我提供食物和一個家。)

Love is more important than money. Love is more important than money.(愛比金錢更重要。)

✏️ Grammar Focus · Simple past for storytelling

When we retell a story, we use the simple past tense. Many verbs add -ed: My friend played well. Others change form: My friend won the race. · I felt happy for her. Use the past tense to share a moment of Muditā that already happened.

當我們重述一個故事時,會用「簡單過去式(simple past tense)」。許多動詞會加「-ed」:My friend played well.(我的朋友表現得很好。)有些動詞則會變化形式:My friend won the race.(我的朋友贏了比賽。)· I felt happy for her.(我為她感到開心。)用過去式來分享一個「已經」發生過的隨喜時刻。

故事 The Story

Story

There was once a boy whose father was a poor farmer (一位貧窮的農夫). The other children at school had new shoes and shiny lunchboxes, but the boy had only old clothes. He felt ashamed of his father, and he wished his family were rich.

從前有一個男孩,他的父親是個貧窮的農夫(一位貧窮的農夫)。學校裡其他孩子都有新鞋子和亮晶晶的便當盒,但這個男孩只有舊衣服。他為自己的父親感到羞愧,希望自己的家是富有的。

What the boy did not know was that his father quietly gave away almost everything. When a neighbor’s child was hungry, the father shared their rice. When an old man could not walk, the father carried him home. He never spoke about it, and he never asked for thanks. His love was selfless (無私的) — and altruistic (利他的).

男孩不知道的是,他的父親默默地把幾乎所有的東西都送了出去。當鄰居的孩子餓肚子時,父親分出他們的米飯。當一位老人家走不動時,父親揹著他回家。他從不提起這些事,也從不要求別人感謝。他的愛是「無私的(selfless)」(無私的)——也是「利他的(altruistic)」(利他的)。

One day the boy fell sick. Many people from the village came to help, because they remembered the father’s kindness. The boy finally understood: his family was not poor at all. His father had given them the greatest wealth — a heart full of love. From that day, the boy appreciated his father, and his envy turned into joy.

有一天男孩生病了。村裡許多人都來幫忙,因為他們記得這位父親的善良。男孩終於明白:他的家一點都不貧窮。他的父親給了他們最大的財富——一顆充滿愛的心。從那天起,男孩開始「感謝(appreciated)」他的父親,他的嫉妒也轉化成了喜悅。

🤔 Check your understanding

  • Why was the boy ashamed at first? 男孩一開始為什麼覺得羞愧?
  • What kind, selfless things did the father do? 父親默默做了哪些無私的善事?
  • What is the “greatest wealth” the story talks about? 故事中所說「最大的財富」是什麼?

佛法小品 The Principle

Principle

Muditā means “having joy with others.” It is the opposite of envy — and the place to begin practicing it is right where we live.

隨喜(Muditā)的意思是「為別人感到歡喜」。它是嫉妒的相反——而開始練習它的地方,就在我們生活的這個家。

🌟 Joy with My Family 喜悅從家開始

It is sometimes easiest to feel joy for strangers and hardest to feel it for the people closest to us. Muditā begins at home: being truly happy when your brother does well, thanking your parents for a love that asks for nothing back. When you let go of jealousy and appreciate the selfless care your family gives, your whole house fills with light. As the teacher reminds us, “When you are happy for your parents and your siblings, your whole house fills with joy.” Be a joy-sharer this week.

有時候,為陌生人感到歡喜最容易,為身邊最親近的人感到歡喜反而最難。「隨喜(Muditā)」要從家裡開始:當你的兄弟姊妹表現得好時,真心地為他們開心;為父母那份不求回報的愛而感謝他們。當你放下嫉妒、珍惜家人給你的那份無私關懷時,你整個家都會充滿光亮。正如老師提醒我們的:「當你為你的父母和兄弟姊妹感到歡喜時,你整個家都會充滿喜悅。」這星期,當一個「分享喜悅的人」吧。

練習 Practice

Homework

“Muditā Starts at Home.” Choose the tier that fits you, and practice being a joy-sharer with your family this week. 選一個適合自己的等級,本週在家中練習隨喜。

Beginner 初級

Draw & trace

Ages 5–8 · new learners
Draw a picture of your mom or dad doing something for you (cooking or driving). Then trace and complete the sentences. Smile and say “Thank you” to your parents 3 times this week.
畫一張你媽媽或爸爸為你做某件事的圖(煮飯或開車)。然後描寫並完成句子。這星期對你的父母微笑並說「Thank you(謝謝)」3 次。
ExampleI love my family. Thank you for taking care of me.
Intermediate 中級

3 reasons

Ages 9–12 · developing fluency
Write 3 reasons why you appreciate your parents or guardians. Use the word selfless to describe someone in your family.
寫「3 個理由」說明你為什麼感謝你的父母或監護人。用「selfless(無私的)」這個字來形容你家裡的某個人。
ExampleI appreciate my parents because they cook for me, help me study, and never give up. My grandma is selfless because she always shares her food.
Advanced 高級

Reflection essay

Ages 13–16 · fluent speakers
Write a paragraph (6–10 sentences) about the father’s story. Why did the son change his mind? Then name one moment this week when you felt jealousy, and describe how you turned it into Muditā.
寫一段(「6–10 句」)關於那位父親的故事。兒子為什麼改變了想法?然後說出這星期一個你感到嫉妒的時刻,並描述你如何把它轉化成隨喜。
ExampleAt first the son was ashamed, but he learned that his father’s selfless love was true wealth. When my friend won, I felt envy — then I chose to be happy for her instead.

小考 Mini Quiz

Check Yourself

選出最適合的答案,點選後會看到解析。

Question 1 of 10
What does Muditā mean?
Correct: C. Muditā (隨喜) means having joy with others — being happy when good things happen to them.
Question 2 of 10
Which word means “感激 / to be thankful for”?
Correct: A. Appreciate means to value and be thankful for something. Envy = 妒忌; provide = 養育.
Question 3 of 10
Choose the correct sentence to give a reason.
Correct: D. The pattern is “I appreciate ___ because ___.” A reason must follow because.
Question 4 of 10
A selfless person is someone who…
Correct: B. Selfless (無私的) means putting others before yourself — like the father in our story.
Question 5 of 10
Your friend wins a race. What is the Muditā response?
Correct: C. Muditā is the opposite of envy — we feel pure, jealous-free joy for another person’s success.
Question 6 of 10
Tell the story in the past tense. Which is correct?
Correct: A. For storytelling we use the simple past: win → won, feel → felt.
Question 7 of 10
In the story, why did the boy feel ashamed at first?
Correct: D. The boy was ashamed of being poor and wished his family were rich — until he understood his father’s love.
Question 8 of 10
According to this lesson, true wealth is…
Correct: B. The story teaches that real wealth is not money but love and compassion — “Love is more important than money.”
Question 9 of 10
Complete the sentence: “My parents ___ food and a home for me.”
Correct: A. Provide (養育) means to give what is needed: parents provide for us.
Question 10 of 10
Where does the teacher say Muditā should start?
Correct: D. “Muditā is a beautiful light that starts in your own home.” Be happy for your parents and siblings first.