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Quarter 1 Week 4

Setting Intentions and Compassionate Action

發願與慈悲行 · Refuge & Mettā 皈依與慈心

本週重點

Overview

💬 English Goal

英文目標

Use the future tense to express plans and promises: “I am going to…” (a plan) and “I will…” (a decision). Learn kindness vocabulary: commitment, compassion, humility, the Middle Path, stranger, intention.

使用未來式(future tense)表達計畫和承諾:「I am going to…(我打算要…)」表示一個計畫,「I will…(我會…)」表示一個決定。學習與善良有關的單字:commitment(承諾)、compassion(慈悲)、humility(謙卑)、the Middle Path(中道)、stranger(陌生人)、intention(發心、意圖)。

🪷 Spiritual Goal

佛學/心靈目標

Understand Refuge (皈依) as setting a goal guided by the Buddha’s teaching, and practice Mettā (慈悲) by turning loving-kindness into a real, generous act — performed with pure intention and no wish for reward.

理解「皈依(Refuge)」就是以佛陀的教導為引導來設定目標,並透過把慈心化為真實又慷慨的行動來練習「慈悲(Mettā)」——以純淨的發心去做,不求任何回報。

單字 Vocabulary

點 🔊 聽發音

聽、跟著念、大聲說三次。

commitment(n.)承諾
compassion(n.)慈悲
humility(n.)謙卑
intention(n.)意圖/發願
stranger(n.)陌生人
refuge(n.)皈依/依靠
the Middle Path(n.)中道

句型 Sentence Patterns

Key Patterns
Pattern 1 · Sharing a plan
I am going to ___.

I am going to smile at a stranger. I am going to smile at a stranger.(我打算對一個陌生人微笑。)

I am going to help someone, because it is kind. I am going to help someone, because it is kind.(我打算去幫助某個人,因為這是善良的。)

I am going to act with compassion this week. I am going to act with compassion this week.(這星期我打算用慈悲心去行動。)

Pattern 2 · Making a promise
I will ___.

I will help them. I will help them.(我會幫助他們。)

I will speak in a kind voice. I will speak in a kind voice.(我會用親切的聲音說話。)

Pattern 3 · Setting a pure intention
My intention is to ___.

My intention is to show kindness with humility. My intention is to show kindness with humility.(我的發心是用謙卑的態度展現善意。)

My intention is pure, so I expect nothing in return. My intention is pure, so I expect nothing in return.(我的發心是純淨的,所以我不期待任何回報。)

✏️ Grammar Focus · Future tense — “going to” vs. “will”

Both talk about the future, but with a small difference. Use “am / is / are going to” for a plan you have already decided: I am going to volunteer tomorrow. Use “will” for a promise or decision made in the moment: I will help you. A commitment to the Buddha’s path (Right Thought) is exactly this kind of clear promise.

這兩種說法都在講未來,但有一點點不同。當你已經決定好的「計畫」,用「am / is / are going to」:I am going to volunteer tomorrow.(我明天要去當志工。)當你是當下做出的「承諾或決定」,用「will」:I will help you.(我會幫你。)對佛陀之道(正思惟)許下的承諾,正是這種清楚的承諾。

故事 The Story

Story

When the Buddha sat beneath the Bodhi tree, many troubles came to test him. We call these troubles Mara (魔羅,生命中的困難) — the doubts and fears that try to pull us off the path. The Buddha did not fight them with anger, and he did not run away. He met them with a calm, steady heart, walking the Middle Path (中道) — not too tight, not too loose.

當佛陀坐在菩提樹下時,許多煩惱前來考驗他。我們把這些煩惱稱為「魔羅(Mara)」(魔羅,生命中的困難)——也就是那些想把我們拉離正道的疑惑與恐懼。佛陀沒有用憤怒去對抗它們,也沒有逃跑。他以平靜、穩定的心去面對它們,走在「中道(Middle Path)」(中道)上——不太緊,也不太鬆。

After his awakening, the Buddha did not keep his peace for himself. He set an intention: to teach with compassion (Mettā) so that others could find the same freedom. To follow him, students take Refuge (皈依) — they choose his teaching as their guide, like a traveler choosing the North Star.

在覺悟之後,佛陀沒有把這份平靜只留給自己。他立下了一個「發心(intention)」:以「慈悲(Mettā)」去教導,好讓其他人也能找到同樣的自在。為了跟隨他,學生們會「皈依(Refuge)」(皈依)——他們選擇以他的教導為引導,就像旅人選擇北極星一樣。

Refuge is not only words. It becomes real the moment we turn loving-kindness into action — even toward a stranger we may never see again. When we help with humility, expecting nothing back, our kind act is pure. That is Mettā in motion: a promise kept, one small kindness at a time.

皈依不只是說說而已。當我們把慈心化為「行動」的那一刻,它才變得真實——即使是對一個我們可能再也見不到的「陌生人(stranger)」。當我們以「謙卑(humility)」去幫助,不求任何回報時,我們的善行就是「純淨的(pure)」。那就是行動中的慈悲:一個被守住的承諾,一次一個小小的善意。

🤔 Check your understanding

  • What does “Mara” stand for in our own lives? 「魔羅」代表我們生活中的什麼?
  • What does it mean to take Refuge? 「皈依」是什麼意思?
  • How can you turn Mettā into a real action this week? 你這週能如何把慈悲化為實際行動?

佛法小品 The Principle

Principle

An intention is a seed; a kind act is the flower. This week we learn that a good plan only matters when we carry it into the world with a pure heart.

發心是一顆種子;善行是那朵花。這星期我們要學的是:一個好的計畫,唯有當我們用純淨的心把它帶進這個世界時,才真正有意義。

🌟 From intention to action 從發願到行動

To set an intention is to point the heart in a wholesome direction (Right Thought). To take Refuge is to trust the Buddha’s teaching as our guide. But the path is finished by Mettā — loving-kindness made real. When you help a stranger with humility and want nothing in return, your kindness is pure, and you walk the Middle Path: full of effort, yet free of pride.

立下一個「發心」,就是把心指向一個善的方向(正思惟)。「皈依」就是信任佛陀的教導作為我們的引導。但這條路是靠「慈悲(Mettā)」來完成的——也就是讓慈心成為真實。當你以謙卑去幫助一個陌生人、不求任何回報時,你的善意就是純淨的,而你也正走在中道上:充滿精進,卻沒有驕傲。

練習 Practice

Homework

Do one kind act for a stranger this week. First write your plan in the future tense; afterward, write your reflection in the past tense. Choose the tier that fits you. 先用未來式寫下計畫,做完後用過去式寫下反思。

Beginner 入門

Plan + Reflect (2 sentences)

Ages 5–8 · new learners
Write 1 plan sentence with “I am going to…” and 1 reflection sentence with “I was…” or “I felt…”. Then say one good thing that happened today.
寫「1 個計畫句」用「I am going to…(我打算要…)」,和「1 個反思句」用「I was…(我那時是…)」或「I felt…(我感覺到…)」。然後說一件今天發生的好事。
ExampleI am going to smile at a stranger. I felt happy after I smiled.
Intermediate 中級

Plan (3–4) + Reflect (2)

Ages 9–12 · developing fluency
Plan in 3–4 sentences using going to / will and a reason with because. Reflect in 2 sentences with feeling words. Then say whether your intention was pure Mettā.
用「going to / will」寫「3–4 句」計畫,並用「because(因為)」加上一個理由。用帶有情緒詞的「2 句」做反思。然後說說你的發心是不是純淨的慈悲。
ExampleI am going to help someone carry their bag, because it is heavy. I will ask them in a kind voice. The stranger was surprised. I felt joyful because I showed kindness.
Advanced 進階

Plan (5+) + Reflect (3–4)

Ages 13–16 · fluent speakers
Plan in 5+ sentences with complex structures; you must use humility and Mettā. Reflect in 3–4 sentences on whether the act followed the Middle Path and how it strengthened your Right Thought.
用較複雜的句型寫「5 句以上」的計畫;你必須用到「humility(謙卑)」和「Mettā(慈悲)」。用「3–4 句」反思這個行動有沒有遵循中道,以及它如何強化了你的正思惟。
ExampleNext week, I am going to volunteer at a community center. I will approach the task with humility, remembering that the intention (Mettā) of this act is pure. Although the task was difficult, I found the Middle Path by not getting stressed. This act of Mettā reinforced my Right Thought.

小考 Mini Quiz

Check Yourself

選出最適合的答案,點選後會看到解析。

Question 1 of 10
Which word means “慈悲 / loving-kindness toward others”?
Correct: B. Compassion (慈悲, Mettā) is loving-kindness for others. Humility = 謙卑; stranger = 陌生人.
Question 2 of 10
Complete the plan: “I ___ smile at a stranger tomorrow.”
Correct: C. For a future plan we use “am going to + verb.” → I am going to smile.
Question 3 of 10
Which sentence is a promise made in the moment (use “will”)?
Correct: A. “Will” expresses a promise or decision made in the moment: I will help you.
Question 4 of 10
To take Refuge (皈依) means to…
Correct: D. Refuge means setting a goal guided by the Buddha’s teaching — like a traveler following the North Star.
Question 5 of 10
In the story, “Mara” stands for…
Correct: C. Mara (魔羅) is a picture of life’s challenges — the doubts and fears that try to pull us off the path.
Question 6 of 10
A kind act done with humility , expecting nothing back, is…
Correct: A. When we help without wanting a reward, our intention is pure — this is Mettā in action.
Question 7 of 10
Which word means “陌生人 / a person we do not know”?
Correct: D. A stranger (陌生人) is someone we do not know — this week we offer one of them a kind act.
Question 8 of 10
The Middle Path (中道) means effort that is…
Correct: B. The Middle Path is balanced: full of effort, yet free of strain and pride.
Question 9 of 10
Add a reason: “I am going to help her ___ her bag is heavy.”
Correct: A. Because introduces a reason: “…help her because her bag is heavy.”
Question 10 of 10
What completes the lesson of this week best?
Correct: D. Refuge and intention are completed by Mettā — loving-kindness turned into real, humble action, even for a stranger.