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Quarter 2 Week 18

Muditā — The Joy of Others

隨喜 · Sympathetic Joy · 我為你感到高興

本週重點

Overview

💬 English Goal

英文目標

Use the social affirmations “I’m happy for you!” and “Good job!” to celebrate others. Learn the vocabulary Muditā, jealousy, antidote, empathetic, enough, and practice the affirmation “I am enough.”

🪷 Spiritual Goal

佛學/心靈目標

Understand Muditā (隨喜) as the antidote to jealousy and competition. Learn interconnectedness — that someone else’s happiness does not make us smaller. Build inner stability with self-love so we can truly rejoice for others.

單字 Vocabulary

點 🔊 聽發音

聽、跟著念、大聲說三次。

Muditā(n.)隨喜/喜無量心
jealousy(n.)嫉妒
antidote(n.)解毒劑
empathetic(adj.)感同身受的
enough(adj.)足夠的/充足的
success(n.)成就/成功
celebrate(v.)慶祝/為……喝采

句型 Sentence Patterns

Key Patterns
Pattern 1 · Celebrating someone
I’m happy for ___.

I’m happy for you!

I’m happy for my friend. She won the game.

Good job! That is wonderful news.

Pattern 2 · Self-love affirmation
I am ___.

I am safe. I am loved.

I am happy. I am enough.

Pattern 3 · Wishing joy for others
They are ___.

They are safe. They are loved.

They are happy, and I am happy for them.

✏️ Grammar Focus · “for” after happy, and the verb “to be”

To celebrate a person, we say I’m happy for you — don’t forget the word for. For affirmations we use the verb to be: I am enough for myself, and they are enough for others. Saying it kindly, out loud, is Right Speech.

故事 The Story

Story

Imagine two children in the same class. Both worked hard, but only one of them won the drawing contest. The first child has a jealous heart (嫉妒的心) — small, dark, and tight. It says, “So what? Why not me?” That tight feeling does not take the prize away from anyone; it only makes the jealous child unhappy.

The second child has a Muditā heart (隨喜的心) — bright, open, and growing wider. It says, “Good job! I’m happy for you!” Nothing was lost. The winner is still the winner — but now two children are smiling instead of one. The joy doubled.

This is the secret of Muditā: another person’s success does not make you smaller. Jealousy is a little poison, and Muditā is the antidote (解毒劑). Before we can be glad for others, we settle our own heart with self-love: I am safe, I am loved, I am happy, I am enough. When you know you are enough, your heart has plenty of room for everyone’s happiness.

🤔 Check your understanding

  • What does a “jealous heart” feel like? 「嫉妒的心」是什麼感覺?
  • Why is Muditā called the antidote to jealousy? 為什麼說隨喜是嫉妒的解毒劑?
  • What can you say when a friend wins? 當朋友贏的時候,你可以說什麼?

佛法小品 The Principle

Principle

When something good happens to a classmate, two hearts are possible. Notice which one you grow.

🌟 When your friend wins, you win too 隨喜的美好

Muditā is one of the Four Immeasurables (四無量心), alongside loving-kindness (Mettā) and compassion (Karuṇā). It is the practice of rejoicing in others’ good fortune instead of comparing ourselves to them. Remember: you are enough, you are loved, and your heart has plenty of room for everyone’s happiness. Good job, class!

練習 Practice

Homework

This week, take the “Good Job” Challenge: find one person — a friend, sibling, or parent — who is happy or successful at something, and tell them “I’m happy for you” or “Good job!” Choose the tier that fits you. 選一個適合自己的等級。

Beginner 入門

Draw & one sentence

Ages 5–8 · new learners
Draw a picture of a friend winning a game or doing something well. Write 1 sentence, and copy the 3 words: Muditā, happy, love.
ExampleI am happy for my friend.
Intermediate 中級

A happy moment

Ages 9–12 · developing fluency
Describe a moment this week when you saw someone else happy. Use the prompt below, and use the word enough in a sentence about yourself.
ExampleMy sister was happy because she passed her test. I said: “Good job!” It made me feel proud. I am enough.
Advanced 進階

Reflection essay

Ages 13–16 · fluent speakers
Write a short paragraph (5–8 sentences) explaining why Muditā is the antidote to jealousy. Why is it sometimes hard to be happy for others, and how does Muditā help our hearts grow bigger?
ExampleIt is hard to be happy for others when I am comparing myself to them. But practicing Muditā reminds me that I am enough, so a friend’s success cannot make me smaller.

小考 Mini Quiz

Check Yourself

選出最適合的答案,點選後會看到解析。

Question 1 of 10
What does Muditā (隨喜) mean?
Correct: B. Muditā is sympathetic joy — being happy when good things happen to other people.
Question 2 of 10
Which word means “嫉妒”?
Correct: C. Jealousy (嫉妒) is the tight, unhappy feeling Muditā helps us overcome.
Question 3 of 10
Your friend wins a prize. What is a Muditā response?
Correct: A. Muditā celebrates others. We say “Good job!” and “I’m happy for you!”
Question 4 of 10
Choose the correct sentence to celebrate a friend.
Correct: D. The pattern is “I’m happy for ___.” Don’t forget the word for.
Question 5 of 10
An antidote (解毒劑) is something that…
Correct: C. An antidote cures a poison. Muditā is the antidote to the “poison” of jealousy.
Question 6 of 10
Complete the self-love affirmation: “I am safe, I am loved, I am happy, I am ___.”
Correct: A. The affirmation ends with “I am enough.” Knowing you are enough makes room to rejoice for others.
Question 7 of 10
When you feel happy for someone else, the joy in the world…
Correct: B. Muditā doubles the joy: the winner is still glad, and now you are glad too.
Question 8 of 10
An empathetic person is one who…
Correct: D. Empathetic (感同身受的) means you can feel along with others — the heart of Muditā.
Question 9 of 10
Does a friend’s success make you smaller?
Correct: A. Another person’s success does not make you smaller. Muditā lets both of you share the joy.
Question 10 of 10
Muditā belongs to a group of practices called the…
Correct: C. Muditā is one of the Four Immeasurables (四無量心), with loving-kindness (Mettā) and compassion (Karuṇā).